Aubie's Kinks List
Figured it was worth having a master list of what I'm into, what I'm not, and everything in-between. This goes both for the kinds of things you can expect from my art and writing, as well as the kinds of things I'd be excited to see as gift/fan art, stories, and anything else, if anyone were so inclined.
Please note I'm not interested in RP (roleplay) or seeking a real-life partner in any way. I am already married and monogamous. :)
Will Not Draw/Write
First off is my personal NOPE list, which includes some things which are not on my kinks list but are also explicitly off the table. I won't draw or write this stuff (or anything under Hard No in the big list below), and will not accept if it's drawn/written for me.
No pregnancy/lactation, watersports, scat, noncon, babyfur/diaper, inflation/excessive weight gain, underage/underage looking, zoophilia, incest, racism, homophobia, transphobia, or hate symbols.
No NSFW content with ferals. While I will draw feral animals and transformations - defined as a character transforming into a full, real-world animal (like a realistic fox, for example) or animalistic fantasy creature (like a quadrupedal gryphon), they cannot involve NSFW content. It's too hard to differentiate from zoo stuff in a drawing out of context. I choose not to go there.
The List
On to the list! Hopefully the categories are self-explanatory. Basically anything in the Don't Mind, Yes, or Hell Yes! categories are things I'm happy to draw/write about, and have my own characters participate in. The Not Interested category is where I go 'meh'. I may take commissions in this category depending on context, but it's not my jam, and not stuff I'm interested in seeing my characters in. As for Hard No - it's exactly what it sounds like. I don't judge people their kinks, these are just 100% not mine. Thank you for respecting that.
Clicking any item in the list will show more information about it. If something isn't listed, feel free to ask me. I may just not have heard of it or I may have forgotten to include it on the list. (But assume no unless I state otherwise.)
| Hell Yes! | Yes | Don't Mind | Not Interested | Hard No |
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An oral sex position wherein two participants are positioned inverted to each other so each has access to the other's genitalia. 369, 469, etc., refer to 'chains' of more than 2 participants. Caring for a partner after a sexual encounter, most often used in the context of a dom caring for their sub after an intense session. Sex involving the anus. A fetish involving swimming, as well as sex or sexual acts in or under the water. When a submissive is made to plead, whether for sexual gratification or otherwise, from a dominant person. Biting hard enough to leave a visible mark on a partner. Sensory deprivation by covering the eyes. When a person stimulates another person's penis with their mouth by sucking and licking. (Or in the case of the very flexible, stimulating their penis with their own mouth! This is called autofellatio.) Usually in the form of a submissive partner worshipping part or all of the body of a dominant partner - bowing, licking, sucking, kissing, and otherwise showing obeisance. The subject is restrained, often for sexual pleasure. Bondage can be with rope, cuffs, or more elaborate setups, and may also involve blindfolds, gags, and/or chastity devices. Barrier-free sex with ejaculation directly into the vagina or anus (essentially the same as a Creampie). This version of Breeding kink does not involve pregnancy. (See also the 'no pregnant, only breed' meme.) Penetration with a penis into a vagina, anus, or mouth for the purpose of warmth or comfort, without it necessarily leading to sexual intercourse. A literal or figurative collar (like a necklace) used to designate a subordinate or pet in a relationship. Making sure all participants are enthusiastically on board with any given activity. The result of barrier-free ejaculation ("cream") into a vagina or anus where it drips back out. Orally stimulating a person's clitoris and/or vagina. A relationship between a dominant person and a submissive person, often with predetermined rules and safety concerns such as safe words. Penetrative sex where two penises (or equivalent, such as dildos) enter one orifice. Penetrative sex between three (or more) partners where one is penetrated in two different orifices at the same time. Stimulating close to orgasm and then stopping before it is reached, often repeatedly. Releasing semen from the body. usually during orgasm. Using the fingers to stimulate the vagina, vulva, or anus. This can be self-pleasure or performed on another person, and may or may not involve penetration. Introducing any kind of food item into sensual play, such as whipped cream or chocolate sauce, or penetration with appropriately shaped produce. A deep kiss with open lips and tongue contact. The act of rubbing, holding, and/or masturbating penises together. Note this is a different term from Frottage! A mechanical device used to simulate the thrusting motion of sex. When one person uses their hand to stimulate the penis of another, often to orgasm. A type of bondage where the person is bound by both their hands and feet, attached to each other behind their back. Non-penetrative sex where the penis is placed between the partner's thighs or another location that provides stimulation. A bulge at the base of a penis which swells upon orgasm to lock a couple together. This is seen with many fantasy monsters, especially werewolves. The size and duration of the knot varies per species and the author or artist's fancy. Usually also requires a collar or harness, where a dom has a sub on a lead. Also called a make out session, where the participants kiss and grope one another, often for an extended period of time. When a person stimulates their own genitals for sexual pleasure. Having sex with a mirror set up that allows one or more participants to see additional angles. Aroused by monstrous beings - werewolves, aliens, dragons, minotaurs, eldritch horrors, you name it! Often associated with Size Difference. Sometimes known as teratophilia, and people with this fetish affectionately call themselves monster fuckers. Nuzzling, kissing, and/or sucking on a partner's neck. Acts involving the nipples, which can include touching, licking, clamps, or even piercing. Stimulating a person's genitalia or anus with the mouth or tongue. Being aroused but restricted from orgasm by being teased and edged close to orgasm without achieving it, or through the use of chastity devices. Continuing to stimulate a person sensually or sexually beyond the point of pleasure, to where it becomes physically unbearable or even painful. This can include stimulation beyond the point of orgasm where the body is most sensitive, use of a vibrator for forced orgasms, intense sensation play, etc. When one partner (traditionally female) penetrates the other (traditionally male) anally with a strap-on dildo. Domination play where one partner acts as a pet. Can involve collars, leashes, stroking, and acting out the role of a different species, such as barking or purring. A highly athletic form of dance around and on fixed vertical pole. Can be incredibly sensual or completely nonsexual. Getting turned on by praising or being praised during intimacy. When a submissive misbehaves, the dom may dole out punishment which can take many forms: spanking, whipping, degradation, orgasm denial, requiring they beg for forgiveness, the list goes on! Either temporarily roleplaying a reversal, such as a sub acting as a dom, or a reversal of traditionally expected roles, such as a man being subservient to a woman or a smaller or physically weaker person dominating a larger person. Playing out an alternate role or character during intimacy to explore fantasies or add variety. A word or words used during a sexual encounter, especially in a dom/sub relationship, where the parties agree to slow down or stop immediately upon hearing them. There can also be nonverbal signals, for use if gagged, for example. Also called tribadism, a sex act in which the participants interlock their legs in order to press and stimulate their genitals together. Scraping with fingernails or claws hard enough to leave a visible mark on a partner, commonly on the back. Depriving a person of one or more senses, such as sight and hearing through the use of blindfolds, earmuffs, earplugs, etc. Toys specifically used for sexual stimulation. Can include dildos, anal toys, bondage gear, vibrators, swings, whips, paddles, etc. A form of artful Japanese rope tying and bondage, deeply sensual but not necessarily associated with sex. The word "kinbaku" is younger and seems to have more of an association with emotional connection in addition to physical rope bonding. When there's a difference in size between partners. This can be a simple height difference, all the way to extremes of macro/microphilia involving tiny or giant participants. Enjoying being spanked on the ass, or being spanked as a form of BDSM punishment. Being penetrated by two partners, one orally, and the other either vaginally or anally, at the same time. Where the penis causes the tummy of the person being penetrated to bulge. While possible in real life through both vaginal and anal penetration, it is often exaggerated in art, especially when size difference is involved. Removing clothing, often in a slow and sensual manner to provoke an aroused response. Sex where one partner sits on the edge of a table, counter, or other piece of furniture while another stands and penetrates them. Stimulation involving heat or cold, such as waxplay, ice, cold metal, etc. Being restrained and/or penetrated by tentacles. They can be from a living being, a machine, or just exist as though coming from some amorphous entity, anything goes. A sexual encounter between three or more participants. Can be a threesome, foursome, or a full-on orgy. Gangbangs also qualify. Enjoying tickling or being tickled. When clothing is ripped in the process of removing it. Pairs nicely with monsterfucking and transformation alike. Shapeshifting into another form. In the context of kink, this can also be a sexually stimulating or gratifying act. Sex involving the vagina. | Sex in a vertical position using a wall for support, or pinning someone to a wall for domination. Sexual contact with an unknown partner (or partners). A person covered in ejaculate, often from multiple partners. Using the buttcheeks to stimulate a penis, a type of intercrural sex. Wearing a costume for kinky roleplay or other sexual stimulation, related to clothing fetishes. A blowjob where the penis is taken in beyond the mouth and into the throat. An attraction to feet, which can include the look, scent, or touch, like tickling or foot masturbation. A sex act in which one person uses their feet to masturbate another. (Or could be one's self if they're flexible!) Bondage gear that restricts the mouth, either by covering it, filling it, or holding it in an open position. A small hole in a wall that allows anonymous sexual contact between two parties, typically with a penis inserted through for a hand job, blowjob, or penetrative sex. Cleaning or bathing a partner, often in a sensual manner. (I am purposefully ignoring the alternate definition, which is reprehensible.) Bondage using handcuffs. A person's body is used as a piece of furniture, such as a chair, foot stool, tray. May or may not involve physical bondage. Enjoying the feel and/or smell of leather clothing, bondage gear, and toys. A massage table with a glory hole incorporated into the design. Sexy underwear, just like it sounds! A form of bondage where the person's head and wrists (and sometimes legs) are trapped through holes in a wall, leaving their hindquarters exposed. Acting with intent to stimulate or arouse, which may or may not involve physical touch. This could be words, coy glances, light touches, touching with an object like a feather, touching near erogenous zones without getting too close, etc. The act of thrusting a penis between a pair of breasts, a form of intercrural sex. Temperature play involving hot wax, often when the recipient is tied and/or blindfolded. | When the dominant partner wears boots and the submissive partner bows, licks, or otherwise shows obeisance at their feet. A costume kink involving a Playboy Bunny-like outfit with rabbit ears and sometimes a tail, often with a sexy outfit, body suit, or lingerie. A collar with bowtie is common too. Refraining from sex for either purity reasons or as a form of sex/orgasm denial. It can be self-monitored or with the use of a chastity belt or cage to ensure compliance. Seeing the outline of a (typically large) penis through underwear or pants. When one partner ejaculates enough into the other to produce an inflation effect, either vaginally, orally, or anally. Exhibitionism is arousal from being observed naked or during sexual activity, while voyeurism is arousal from being the observer. When one person sits on another person's face, for purpose of oral sex or as a dominating act. An agreement allowing ones partner(s) sexual access without prior warning or permission. May be bounded by rules such as certain times of day, days of the week, certain acts off limits, etc. Dry humping, rubbing against another's body without any form of penetration, especially when clothed. Note this is a different term from Frotting! Interest or arousal in listening to a heart beating, which can be done just with an ear on the chest or with a stethoscope. Using some form of mind control on a subject. This can be consensually agreed upon beforehand. Using a blade (knife, dagger, sword, etc.) to enhance a sexual experience. Can be used to instill fear, scrape the skin, cut away clothing, temperature play, or deeper cuts that cause scarring. Enjoying the feel of a rubber material which can be worn as skintight clothing items or made into sex toys. Most condoms are also made out of latex. Extreme size difference fetish, often involving being shrunk or at the mercy of a giant being, or being a giant in comparison to a partner or partners. Short for macrophilia/microphilia A costume fetish involving a sexy version of a maid's outfit, often complete with a feather duster which can be used for stimulation. A form of foodplay wherein sushi or sashimi is placed upon and eaten off of the body of a naked woman. The male variant is called nantaimori. Arousal caused by scents from the body, which can be from sexual areas or otherwise. When sex acts are performed in a public place, whether discreetly or in a way that's obvious to onlookers. Sadism involves inflicting pain, and masochism involves receiving pain, for the purpose of pleasure and sexual gratification. It can be physical or mental/emotional. Sexual arousal regarding a person who is sleeping or unconscious. This can be consensually agreed upon beforehand. A type of costume play wearing long stockings, garters, fishnet stockings, and the like. Can be associated with foot fetishes as well. Arousal due to sweat - smell, taste, etc. Arousal upon seeing someone in wet - and often see-through - clothing. For example, wet white t-shirts often allow details of breasts to show through. | Arousal regarding armpits, which can include smell, sweat, or a location for intercrural sex. Physically altering a person's body via piercings, tattoos, scarification, etc. The act of restricting breathing during erotic play. Getting turned on by degrading or being degraded/insulted during intimacy. BDSM activities that are risky (physically or psychologically) in some way, such as waxplay, knifeplay, consensual non-consent, fire, blood, etc. Not to be confused with Edging. Penetration of the vagina or anus with an entire hand balled into a fist. A kink related to gore, blood, viscera, injury, missing limbs, hard vore, etc. Sucking hard enough to leave a visible bruise mark on a partner. A roleplay scenario where the participants play a medical professional and patient, which can involve costumes, exams, medical tools, etc. A kink involving laying eggs into a person, usually via an ovipositor or tentacles. This is often seen with insect-like aliens and monsters. Orally pleasuring another person's anus. Squirting and female ejaculation are actually two different phenomena, but for kink purposes are similar - when someone with a vagina expels a significant amount of clear or milky liquid during orgasm. Costume play or arousal involving a uniform of some kind - police, military, and the like. A kink where one participant is consumed by another. There are many subcategories. "Soft vore" means they are swallowed whole and alive, "hard vore" means they are dismembered or chewed and involves gore. "Fatal" and "nonfatal" are exactly what they sound like. Vore is often oral, but can also be via other orifices. | Sexual activity involving blood, which may be from cutting, needles, biting, or menstruation. Barrier-free sex with ejaculation directly into the vagina with the specific intent of pregnancy. When a person has a sexual encounter with a clone or alternate version of themselves. Short for 'dubious consent,' where it is not clear that all participants have consented to any sexual or amorous activities. A fetish involving vomit. When a partner feeds another, as a form of sexual arousal but also for the specific purpose of weight gain. A form of edgeplay using a gun to enhance the sexual experience. When people engage in sex, usually rough, when they are angry at one another or actively hate one another. Sex involving family members or other relatives. Inflating the body with air or liquid, mostly seen in artwork where more fantastical, dramatic results are possible. It may involve specific body parts, like breasts, stomach, genitals, or buttocks, or it may involve the entire body. Sexual arousal involving breast milk and breastfeeding. A fetish regarding a person who is menstruating. Non-consensual sexual acts. Can stand for one of 3 meanings in Japanese - netorare (being cheated on by a partner, which often starts against her will in some way), netori (stealing someone else's partner), or netorase (essentially the same as being cuckolded, consensually willing to have a partner cheat). Being sexually aroused by having a full bladder or wetting ones self. Can be shortened to 'omo'. Not quite the same as a urine fetish, or watersports, but related. A kink involving pregnant people or being pregnant. A kink involving a medical prolapse of the rectum, urethra, or vaginal canal, where the inner lining (or entire pelvic organs) are displaced and may protrude from the body. Sexual activities involving feces. Urethral sounding is a medical technique where a rod is inserted into the urethra of the penis. As a kink, people derive pleasure from this act in multiple ways. A fetish where the person is specifically interested in/aroused by virgins. The use of urine for sexual gratification. |